What Makes Your Anxiety Flare Up?

by | Nov 29, 2023

Ever find yourself asking, “Why is my anxiety acting up again?” It’s like a persistent puzzle, and I get it. There are days when happiness seems elusive, and this anxiety thing feels like an unwanted companion.

Here’s the deal: we’re all wrestling with these questions, and it can drive us a bit nuts. We look around, and it seems like everyone’s got it together, but guess what? They’re probably wondering the same thing about you. We’re all in this unspoken pact of not revealing the messy stuff unless it’s absolutely necessary – like, can’t-function-normally necessary.

So, what’s the root of this anxious feeling? Well, life throws a mix of experiences at us, and it all plays into the mood we’re in. Let’s take a life example – music. Ever notice how your drive changes with the tunes? Relaxing songs, and you’re cruising slowly; upbeat jams, and suddenly you’re in the fast lane. Our daily encounters shape our feelings and mindset.

Now, changing this vibe – how do you do it? I’ve figured out in my own journey that life’s too short to stress about everything. It’s not easy, trust me, but worrying is like spinning wheels in mud – you go nowhere. So, I’ve made a habit of hitting pause, meditating on whether what’s bugging me is genuinely worth the mental gymnastics.

Here’s a reality check: life ticks on, and worrying hasn’t magically fixed anything for anyone. It’s a tough mindset to break, but it starts with small steps. Anxiousness is ugly; it’s a feeling we hate. And what do we do with things we hate? We ditch them! Getting rid of anxiety takes action, a decision, and a bit of effort. It’s about acknowledging that something feels off, deciding to change it, and putting in the work.

Let’s put in a bit of effort today to kick that anxious feeling to the curb. First, for our well-being, and then for the people around us – family, significant others. Because just as things make us anxious, they ripple into the lives of those we care about. Take that first step, and let’s walk this journey together, step by step.

For more doses of strength and insight, check out my other blogs. Let’s embark on this new life – your new life – starting today.

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